Separation means two households. See what both can afford.
We know this part is hard. SeparationSense makes the money side clearer — child support, government payments and living costs, for both homes at once, in plain English.
It's a private planning estimate: your figures stay on your device, and nothing here is financial or legal advice.
You'll need a rough idea of each person's income, the care arrangement (nights per fortnight), and your main costs and debts. Estimates are fine — change anything and it recalculates instantly.
Both parties
Debts & commitments
Use your bank statement
See your real spending — optional ▾
Guessing your budget is the hard part. Add a CSV bank statement and SeparationSense reads it entirely on your device — nothing is uploaded — to show what you actually spend, then fills it into a household. CSV only for now (every major Australian bank exports one).
Your statement is read in your browser and never sent anywhere. Categorisation is rule-based and may misclassify — review the figures before applying. CSV only for now; PDF support is planned.
Your household
Covers itselfEstimate only — confirm entitlements with Services Australia.
Other parent's household
Covers itselfEstimate only — confirm entitlements with Services Australia.
Property & asset split
Home, super & assets — optional ▾
Add up everything to be divided — home equity, superannuation, savings — and see how a settlement splits, including how much is cash now versus super preserved until retirement. A simplified estimate, not legal advice or a property settlement.
31% of the pool is superannuation — preserved in the super system until retirement, not cash you can use now.
To reach this split, about $30,000 moves from You to Other parent — usually via a super split and/or a cash adjustment (assuming each keeps their own super and the home goes to whoever keeps it).
Estimate only — not a property valuation, tax advice, or a property settlement. A real Australian settlement follows a four-step process (identify & value the pool, weigh contributions, weigh future needs, check it's just & equitable); superannuation is split by court order or binding agreement and stays preserved in super. The main-residence capital gains exemption usually applies but not always. Speak to a family lawyer, and a conveyancer for any sale. Child support is income-and-care based, so an asset split changes it only if invested proceeds add taxable income.
Save & compare scenarios
Save snapshots of your situation and compare them side by side — for example, your set-up now versus 50/50 care, or before and after a pay rise. Change any input and every scenario updates.
💬 A plain-English “what-if” assistant is coming soon — ask questions like “what if we went 50/50?” and watch every figure update.
See it visually
The same figures as pictures — where the money flows, both households side by side across your scenarios, and how child support shifts as the children grow.
Green flows in (income & support), grey flows out (costs); the right-hand surplus balances the picture. Annual figures.
Net annual position for each household. Save scenarios above to compare them here.
On the same incomes and care, child support usually steps up when the youngest turns 13 (the legislated cost-of-children table increases), and ends as each child turns 18.
Where the money goes
Small changes with outsized effects, modelled across tax, child support and government support together. General information only — for tailored help, a financial counsellor is free (MoneySmart · 1800 007 007).
Going from 5 to 6 nights changes care %, which moves both child support and Family Tax Benefit together. Modelled: Your yearly net rises by $3,764, Other parent's falls by $3,318.
After income tax, any change in child support, and reduced government support, about $439 of an extra $1,000 reaches your household. That combined effect is usually larger than tax alone — it's why a pay rise can feel smaller than expected.
After income tax, any change in child support, and reduced government support, about $220 of an extra $1,000 reaches Other parent's household. That combined effect is usually larger than tax alone — it's why a pay rise can feel smaller than expected.
Housing is about 45% of your spending ($28,600/yr). Small changes to the largest line move the net position most.
Housing is about 56% of Other parent's spending ($23,400/yr). Small changes to the largest line move the net position most.
What happens when
Key financial dates and triggers. Information only — confirm anything binding with Services Australia.
- At separationChild support starts from when you apply
Child support is payable from the date Services Australia receives an application — it isn't automatically backdated to the date you separated. Applying sooner rather than later matters.
- Each child support periodFigures re-index (currently the 2026 child support period)
The self-support amount and costs-of-children figures update each child support period. The assessed amount can move even if nothing in your situation changes.
- After 30 June (tax returns)Annual reassessment once both returns are lodged
Child support is reassessed when both parents' taxable incomes for the year are known. Lodging late can hold up an accurate assessment for both households.
- After 30 June (Family Tax Benefit)FTB is balanced and the supplement is paid
Once you confirm your income for the year, Services Australia balances your Family Tax Benefit — reconciling any over- or under-payment and paying the end-of-year supplement if you're eligible. Child support received is counted here via the Maintenance Income Test.
- When care or income changesTell Services Australia promptly
A material change in care nights or either parent's income can change both the child support assessment and any government support. Reporting it promptly keeps both households' figures right and avoids debts later.
Estimate only — not financial or legal advice. Take-home income is an FY 2025–26 tax estimate (excludes HECS/HELP, which is entered as a debt). Government support (FTB A/B, Parenting Payment, Rent Assistance) is estimated and includes the Maintenance Income Test — child support received reduces FTB Part A. Rates are current for 20 March 2026; your actual entitlement depends on your circumstances. For binding figures see Services Australia and MoneySmart. Feeling overwhelmed? A financial counsellor is free — 1800 007 007.
Common questions about separation finances
Plain-English answers to what people ask most. General information only — not financial or legal advice.